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Welcoming a baby into your family is a joy, but it’s natural to have concerns too. If you’re expecting baby number two, you might be worried about how your older child will adjust to a new sibling. Jealousy is a natural emotion for kids, especially during the ages when they are particularly attached to their parents. They’ll notice you are taking time to care for baby and that people are excited about baby. Are there ways to ease this transition?

A mother introduces their older child to their new sibling.

How can I help my older child adjust to a new baby? 

One of the ways that parents can help older children adjust to a new baby is by involving siblings in newborn care, to the extent that they want to be involved. If they are a little older, they might want to help with feeding or bathing. If they’re younger, you can have them get a pacifier or a diaper. 

Especially for toddlers, it can be helpful for parents to acknowledge the difference between them and the baby. You might find yourself telling the older child to wait while you feed baby or change a diaper. On occasion, you can tell baby that they have to wait while you do something with your older child. You can also remind your older child that they are a big kid and doing something or have something that baby can’t. Emphasizing that they are special can help with feelings of jealousy. 

New sister holds their baby sibling

How do I keep my older child from feeling overwhelmed by the new baby?

 Having a baby can throw everyone’s schedules off, from sleep to meals. One tip to help your older child adjust to a new baby is by keeping their schedule as consistent as possible. If they go to daycare three days a week, keep them at daycare even if you or your partner are home with baby. 

Babies do need a lot of attention! This can create feelings of jealousy in your older child or a certain level of unpredictability. When you feed your baby it can help to find something calm and special that the older child can do. While you are trying to have a calm moment for feeding, you can let your older child watch a special show or read a book. 

New brother holds their baby sibling

How can friends and relatives help with the adjustment? 

One of the easiest things friends and relatives can do to help your older child or children adjust to baby is acknowledge the sibling first. When they come over to meet baby, have visitors prioritize the sibling. It is so easy for everyone to get excited about the new baby, and your other child can notice this excitement. Have friends and family ask the older sibling if they want to introduce baby or share something special about their new sibling.

If you have someone who can help you during the postpartum period–whether it is a doula, a family member or friend–you have a great opportunity to prioritize each child on their own. They can take care of baby so that you have quality time with the older sibling. Or, they can take care of the older sibling so you can either rest or take care of baby.

We all want to keep our newborn babies safe. When looking at common illnesses, RSV is a frequent concern amongst new parents. The latest recommendation? Recieve the RSV Vaccine during pregnancy. If your doctor has made this suggestion you may be curious how it works. Let’s take a look at what RSV is and what you can do before your baby is even born to protect them from it.

What Is Respiratory Syncytial Virus (RSV)?

Respiratory syncytial virus (RSV) is a leading cause of hospitalization in infants, responsible for 58,000–80,000 annual hospitalizations in children under 5 in the U.S. Babies under 6 months are especially vulnerable, as RSV can lead to severe lung infections like bronchiolitis and pneumonia. We’ve done a deep dive on the specifics of RSV in babies, you can check that out here!

It’s important to remember that while RSV is dangerous for infants and the immunocompromised, it can present as a common cold in healthy individuals. This means even if someone’s only symptom is a runny nose, they could spread the illness.

How does getting the RSV vaccine during pregnancy work?

The Abrysvo vaccine, approved by the FDA and recommended by the CDC, is given to pregnant individuals between 32 and 36 weeks of gestation. It works by transferring protective antibodies to the fetus, providing passive immunity that shields infants during their most vulnerable early months.

A baby rests peacefully in their mother's arms.

Is it safe and effective?

Yes! Clinical trials show impressive results:

81.8% efficacy against severe RSV within the first 90 days of life.
69.4% efficacy through 6 months of age.

Safety data from over 7,000 participants revealed no significant risks to pregnant individuals or babies. The most commonly seen side effects are mild such as injection site pain or fatigue and they were reported to be short-lived.

What else should I know about the RSV Vaccine during Pregnancy?

Timing: CDC recommends vaccination at 32–36 weeks, ideally before RSV season (typically fall/winter).

Who should get it? Most pregnancies without contraindications. This could be something such as an allergy to the vaccine’s components.

Alternative option: For those unable to receive the vaccine, there is an option that can be given to infants post-birth.

The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) and World Health Organization (WHO) endorse RSV vaccination during pregnancy as a safe, effective way to reduce infant complications due to RSV.

Take Action

The most important thing you can do when considering healthcare decisions is to talk to your trusted healthcare provider. You can practice using the BRAIN acronym during your prenatal visit by asking the following questions:

Benefits – What are the benefits of recieving the RSV vaccine during pregnancy?
Risks – What are the known risks? What are the risks of RSV to a newborn?
Alternatives – What alternatives do I have?
Intuition – What am I feeling now that I know the science-based answers to my questions?
Nothing – What happens if I do nothing about RSV?

By vaccinating during pregnancy, you’re offering your baby a strong first defense against a potentially serious illness.

More Reading

Center for Disease Control (CDC)

World Health Organization (WHO)

American College of Obstetrics and Gynecologists (ACOG)

 

Installing a car seat safely is one of the most important things to do before baby arrives. In fact, you can’t leave the hospital without a car seat. Choosing and installing a car seat that best fits your vehicle and lifestyle can seem daunting. That’s why our own Child Passenger Safety Technician (CPST) is here to help. Here are six steps to ensure your baby’s car seat is safely installed. 

Be Prepared when Installing a Car Seat Safely

If you are a first-time parent, you’ve probably never installed a car seat before. And even if you have other children, you may not be familiar with your new car seat’s installation procedures. To install your car seat safely, read both the entirety of your car seat manual and the portions of your vehicle owner’s manual that pertains to child restraints. We recommend that you install your seat by your 36th week of pregnancy.

Accessories Can Be Dangerous

It might be tempting to use aftermarket accessories for your car seat or car. Don’t. Use only manufactured approved items that come in the box with your car seat (infant inserts, strap covers, etc.). This includes cozy winter inserts like the J.J. Cole Bundle Me, which are not approved for use in car seats. 

Don’t Leave Baby in the Car Seat

Avoid keeping baby in the car seat more than absolutely necessary. A car seat is designed to keep baby snug and safe, but limits baby’s movement. Even if baby fell asleep in the car seat, consider babywearing or a stroller with a bassinet instead. 

Ensure Proper Use of the Car Seat

Straps should come through the slot just below baby’s shoulders, be snug enough that you can not pinch any slack at the collarbone or hips and chest clip should be even with baby’s armpits. Never loosen car seat straps or unbuckle the chest clip or crotch buckle unless you are removing the baby from the seat.

Consult a Child Passenger Safety Technician to Install the Car Seat Safely

Before baby arrives, schedule an appointment with a certified Child Passenger Safety Technician (CPST). A CPST is qualified and trained to make sure that your car seat is installed correctly and can help you install a baby car seat safely.

As a Doulas of Baltimore client, you may schedule your Car Seat Concierge appointment for $100. What’s included in our car seat concierge service:

  • Initial consultation to discuss your feature and brand preferences, budget, and lifestyle factors
  • Assistance in selecting the best car seat for your child 90-minute personalized car seat installation appointment with up to 2 seat(s) in up to 2 vehicle(s) 
  • 12 months of industry professional phone/email support as your child grows to ensure your confident in your child’s car seat safety

 

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If you’re pregnant it’s likely you’ve heard of Group B Strep (GBS), probably as one of the required tests for pregnant individuals. What is it and why does it matter? While GBS is common, (1 in 4 pregnant individuals have it present!) if left untreated it can pose serious health risks. Today we’re taking a look at what GBS is, treatments and testing, and the bottom line so you can make informed and empowered decisions for you and your baby.

What Is Group B Strep (GBS)?

GBS is a common bacterium (Streptococcus agalactiae) that naturally exists and is typically harmless in adults. It resides in the digestive, urinary, and reproductive systems. While the bacteria may be present (colonization) it often doesn’t lead to infection.

If a bacteria has colonized, it simply exists. It’s when it gets out of control that it can cause infection in the body. Even if one is asymptomatic, infection could be present and is very dangerous for newborns which is why testing is so important. An estimated 20-25% of pregnant individuals have GBS present.

Remember: levels can vary over time.

Why Is Group B Strep a Concern During Pregnancy?

Risks to the Pregnant Person:
Those who have GBS present generally are unaffected. Rarely, they can encounter complications such as Urinary Tract Infections (UTIs), infection of the amniotic fluid or infection of the uterus once the baby has arrived. 

Risks to the Baby:
The risks of GBS are generally for the baby. Transmission of the bacteria to the baby during childbirth can lead to early-onset (first week) or late-onset (weeks 1–3) disease. Complications from contracting this bacteria include sepsis, pneumonia, meningitis, long-term disabilities, or even mortality.

Though this can sound scary, please keep in mind that these are rare complications, only affecting 1 or 2 babies out of 100 if the laboring person doesn’t receive antibiotics during labor. Though rare, it’s vital to understand the facts.

Risk Factors for Transmission:
Your baby may be at a higher risk for contracting GBS if you experience preterm labor, prolonged rupture of membranes (greater than 18 hours), a fever during labor, or a prior GBS-positive baby. Your baby is also at risk if you test positive on your routine GBS testing.

How Is GBS Tested for in the United States?

The United States takes a broad approach to testing using a Universal Testing model that requires a routine vaginal/rectal swab at 36–38 weeks. This will typically be done at your OBGYN or Midwife’s office. This swab is then cultured and evaluated to determine if GBS bacteria are present. If yes, the results will be communicated to you along with options for treating and intervention.

This testing is done between 36-38 weeks to ensure accuracy (remember, this bacteria varies in levels present) and avoid overuse of antibiotics.

Urine testing can also detect GBS earlier in pregnancy. Typically a positive result won’t prompt any action by your care provider but if heavy colonization is indicated, this could require antibiotics during pregnancy.

You might be surprised to find that countries around the world vary in their approaches. Canada, for instance, aligns with the US perspective of Universal Testing whereas Nordic countries such as Sweden and EU countries such as the UK prefer a Risk-Based approach where testing is only done if requested or indicated. Regardless, it’s important to ask questions and follow the recommendations of your trusted healthcare provider.

What Are the Options If I Test Positive for GBS?

Intrapartum Antibiotics:
The gold standard for care is IV penicillin administered during labor at least 4 hours before delivery. This helps ensure efficacy of the antibiotic prior to baby passing through the birth canal. The timing is important!

Special Scenarios:
If labor is rapid it can limit the efficacy of the antibiotics. Antibiotics will still be given but baby will likely be monitored more closely. In the event of a Cesarean section delivery, antibiotics won’t be needed if labor hasn’t begun and your water hasn’t broken.

What Else Should I Know About Group B Strep?

Prevention Strategies: There are no preventative measures that can be taken to eliminate GBS bacteria in the body. This bacteria occurs naturally. Once detected, prompt antibiotic treatment reduces neonatal risk by ~80%.

Newborn Care: It’s important to monitor the baby for fever, lethargy (difficult to wake), or breathing struggles. These can all be signs of infection and should be addressed as soon as possible by a medical provider. The baby’s pediatrician should be the first call. Antibiotics are the standard treatment.

Postpartum Care: Mind the birthing person’s temperature and symptoms alongside baby’s, paying attention to any changes and seeking care if they’re noted.

Emotional Support: Addressing parental anxiety and connecting with support groups.

Future Pregnancies: Retesting will be required for all subsequent pregnancies, however, a positive test isn’t a guarantee. Group B Strep can be a transient bacteria that recedes, eliminating the risk to the birthing person and their baby.

Are There Myths About GBS?

Yes! There are many myths about GBS that can feel scary or leave you feeling confused. The main ones are:

GBS is not a sexually transmitted infection. It is a naturally-occurring bacteria that exists within the body and a common one, at that.

Antibiotics during labor do not harm the baby. While it is true that the antibiotics could have a small impact on baby’s microbiome, these effects have not been studied at length. Preliminary studies with limited data suggest that the impact is short-term and the effects can be mitigated to some degree by choosing to breast or chestfeed.

Positive status doesn’t guarantee infant infection! Even if you do test positive and aren’t able to recieve antibiotics quickly the number of newborns that get sick from GBS are few. While the illness is a very serious one and shouldn’t be taken lightly, it is still rare.

No proven remedies are known to exist besides antibiotics during labor. There are many online suggestions such as Hibiclens or Garlic to change the bacteria levels. There are no scientific studies to prove any of the alternatives work to keep your baby safe.

Wrapping it all up

If you’ve found yourself here because you have tested positive for GBS, don’t panic. Remember, GBS is a bacteria that naturally exists within the body. There is nothing you could do that would change that. If you test positive for GBS at your routine screening, remember that it is manageable with proactive care.

Antibiotics reduce both neonatal and postpartum risks for baby and parent and can be simply administered during labor.

As with everything, remember to ask questions and follow the guidance of your medical care provider. With early intervention, proper treatment, and consistent care you and your baby will not experience any ill effects from GBS.

New Parents, your life will never be normal again.

Ok, that’s not entirely true. You will settle into a new normal but when a baby is born, life as you know it comes to an end. That can sound daunting! How will you make sure your new baby is cared for, your home is tended to, your work keeps going? When new parents are settling into a new normal it will take work. With some skilled planning and a willingness to shift when needed, you’ll find yourself in a groove before too long.

 

End of New Parents Leave

Usually once a baby has arrived one or both parents will get some amount of leave from their job. Circumstances look different for each employer. Explore what options you and/or your partner have for parental leave once your baby has arrived. How long can you take? When preparing to return to work, consider what will make it easiest including a hybrid or virtual work schedule for a period of time or even permanently. Explore these options and what they will look like with your employer.

New Caregiver

New parents transitioning to a new caregiver will take some effort but with planning it can be as smooth as possible. Ensure your new caregiver has adequate bottles and pumped milk or formula available to feed the baby. Pack their bag well with extra diapers, wipes, outfits, and anything else they may need. Discuss any circumstances unique to your family that your new caregiver may need to understand (is your baby on medication? Do they need to be fed a certain way? etc.) Communication is key to make transitioning to a new caregiver as easy as possible.

Balancing Home/Work

A new baby will always change the dynamics in a house. Consider how to make the transition easier for yourself as new parents, your pets, big siblings, and extended family members. Identify how your household tasks are currently split. Who takes out the trash? What about cooking meals? Who does the dishes? Consider a chart or writing out a schedule for when these things occur and think about planning to prepare food ahead of time while you ease into your new routine.

 

Babies change your life in the blink of an eye and it can feel overwhelming going through all the changes that you will face. With an open mind, lots of communication, and a plan ready, going back to work will feel challenging but not impossible. 

 

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